Gifts For Your Plus Size Valentine

January 29, 2017 5 Comments

Gifts For Your Plus Size Valentine

January 29, 2017 5 Comments

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I know it’s hard to believe, but it’s damn near February y’all! While here in the US we certainly have much bigger things to think about than Valentine’s Day, I feel like all of us could use a little reminder that love does exist and that it’s important to celebrate that! Let’s love on our plus size valentine!

Shopping for a special someone is always a little stressful, but if you’re shopping for your favorite fat babe (even if that’s you!) this list should make it a little bit easier! Remember that everyone is super unique and special and adding a fun spin to any of these gifts is what will really make your babe swoon.



Can you even believe how amazing this coloring book is? Get your love this amazing book of fat babes fighting space aliens, or get this fat activism coloring book. Don’t forget to get them some colored pencils to really finish out the gift!


Ok, there is a disclaimer on buying your loved one lingerie… don’t do it if they hate lingerie! Whatever you buy for your plus size valentine should be for THEM, not you. So if the love of your life is a bralette and granny panties babe (like myself), steer clear of these goodies. But if you’ve got a lingerie connoisseur on your hands, check out! They carry plus size lingerie up to size 6x and have hundreds of different styles that your cutie pie will love.


If your babe isn’t into lingerie, don’t fret! There are so many companies coming out with amazing plus size under-roos that are perfect for a Valentine’s Day gift. My partner’s favorite undies are from TomboyX (pictured on the left). They are soft, the waistband sits comfortably, and there are lots of different adorable colors and styles. Better than that these undies go up to size 4x. You can get 15% off your first purchase over $50! 


If you’re really feeling the love this year, and want to knock your plus size valentine off their feet, I cannot recommend Big Fig Mattresses enough. I had the pleasure of working with this company and have been sleeping on one of their beds for the last 4 months. These are the first and only beds made and tested for fat bodies. They are supportive and comfortable while remaining incredibly strong. Everything from the frame to the cooling gel the bed is made with was taken into consideration. Nothing says “I love you” like getting a perfect night’s sleep!


Remember, first and foremost buying for your partner is about them, not you. Keep that in mind when buying anything related to sex, and make it all about their experience instead of your own. With that said, there are several really great intimate products that can have some extra special pay off for plus size babes. From back wedges that help lift and support, to vibrators with extra long handles making it easier to access the goods, sex toys can be thoughtful and hot… you just gotta use your imagination!


For the first time since beginning this blog I’ve had to very seriously consider that, if you live where I live (in the United States) it is possible that your loved one’s rights are in danger. It’s possible that the right to even share that love may be in danger. There are very few things that are more body positive than making sure your partner knows that you stand with them in the fight for their rights. If gift giving just doesn’t seem appropriate this year, consider making a donation to the ACLU. They are working hard to make sure we’re all safe.

Wishing all of you a beautiful, love filled, body positive Valentine’s Day!!!



  • Ellen Dayan January 30, 2017 at 12:19 pm

    Hi Corissa. As usual, you blow me away with your perspective and attitudes. I just have to say thank you so much for including encouragement to be active in these times as far as exercising your voice. It’s beautiful that you framed this as a gift to the people we love. I’m sending you really big hugs right now. You are awesome.

  • libby January 30, 2017 at 6:44 pm

    I love this. You’re right, if my husband donated to the ACLU in my honor, I’d weep.

  • cinco seis February 7, 2017 at 9:54 pm

    Hi Corissa! I’ve been reading your blog for about 6 months but this is my first comment. As a bisexual femme woman married to a bisexual butch woman, this post covers all the bases and made me feel seen and recognized. Thank you! <3

    • fatgirlflow February 8, 2017 at 11:13 pm

      <3 eeeep! that's the best comment you could possibly leave <3 thanks for reading babe, you're always seen here!

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