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Self Love On Tough Days

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A few days ago I posted something on instagram about our perceptions of ourselves in photos and selfies. I have this theory that if we could always know how we would see ourselves a year from now we wouldn’t hate on ourselves so hard. Some days I take pictures of myself that I don’t love, and when that happens I try to think “hey there are a whole lot of variables in any given day that could affect how you see yourself. Just because this picture doesn’t capture exactly what you want to see today doesn’t mean that it isn’t capturing something wonderful and gorgeous.”

Our bodies, our faces, our beauty – these are ever changing things. Right when we get comfortable with one aspect of ourselves, there’s another thing changing that we have to adjust to and learn to love all over again. There is no formula for self love that will make you bullet proof. You can only accept that this journey, like all journeys, may get tough some times. And that’s okay. When it gets tough you catch your breath, splash some water on your face, and try to go easy on yourself. We can totally cope with tough.

What we can’t cope with is hating ourselves. I can’t stand the thought of looking back a year from now and not having any pictures to remember the happy moments I have with my loved ones. I can’t bear to leave out portions of my life from my memories just because I had a day where I didn’t feel pretty enough.

I am pretty enough. And I know that one day I’ll look back at all these pictures I took on a rough day and believe that.

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Amber Cowan

Wednesday 21st of October 2015

I LOVE your message! I hope there's lots of beautiful young woman reading/following you because you're AMAZING an inspiration to young AND old, alike. Thank you for being the change u want to see in the world ✌?️✌?✌?


Wednesday 21st of October 2015

Thank you so much Amber!!!!! <3

Bernie Cline

Monday 19th of October 2015

I think you are very attractive. Do not sell yourself short.

Trish Doran

Sunday 18th of October 2015

I wish I was as pretty as you. Don't sell yourself short. :)


Monday 19th of October 2015

I am sure you are incredibly beautiful Trish <3

Bryan C.

Sunday 18th of October 2015

You're absolutely beautiful, Ma'am :-)

Andrea Austin

Sunday 18th of October 2015

You're an inspiration to us all! Thank you for sharing your pictures & article.