Self Love On Tough Days

April 11, 2015 8 Comments

Self Love On Tough Days

April 11, 2015 8 Comments

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A few days ago I posted something on instagram about our perceptions of ourselves in photos and selfies. I have this theory that if we could always know how we would see ourselves a year from now we wouldn’t hate on ourselves so hard. Some days I take pictures of myself that I don’t love, and when that happens I try to think “hey there are a whole lot of variables in any given day that could affect how you see yourself. Just because this picture doesn’t capture exactly what you want to see today doesn’t mean that it isn’t capturing something wonderful and gorgeous.”

Our bodies, our faces, our beauty – these are ever changing things. Right when we get comfortable with one aspect of ourselves, there’s another thing changing that we have to adjust to and learn to love all over again. There is no formula for self love that will make you bullet proof. You can only accept that this journey, like all journeys, may get tough some times. And that’s okay. When it gets tough you catch your breath, splash some water on your face, and try to go easy on yourself. We can totally cope with tough.

What we can’t cope with is hating ourselves. I can’t stand the thought of looking back a year from now and not having any pictures to remember the happy moments I have with my loved ones. I can’t bear to leave out portions of my life from my memories just because I had a day where I didn’t feel pretty enough.

I am pretty enough. And I know that one day I’ll look back at all these pictures I took on a rough day and believe that.

ps- cute shirt is from modcloth


  • Miriam Cabrera July 7, 2015 at 9:06 am

    From now on, I’ll stop hiding from being photographed just because I don’t look like I did way back when… I will celebrate my life n memories in this body! Yes!

  • Andrea Austin October 18, 2015 at 5:39 pm

    You’re an inspiration to us all! Thank you for sharing your pictures & article.

  • Bryan C. October 18, 2015 at 7:21 pm

    You’re absolutely beautiful, Ma’am 🙂

  • Trish Doran October 18, 2015 at 11:07 pm

    I wish I was as pretty as you. Don’t sell yourself short. 🙂

    • fatgirlflow October 19, 2015 at 12:17 am

      I am sure you are incredibly beautiful Trish <3

  • Bernie Cline October 19, 2015 at 4:48 pm

    I think you are very attractive. Do not sell yourself short.

  • Amber Cowan October 21, 2015 at 5:37 pm

    I LOVE your message!
    I hope there’s lots of beautiful young woman reading/following you because you’re AMAZING an inspiration to young AND old, alike.
    Thank you for being the change u want to see in the world ✌?️✌?✌?

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